Open Your Eyes – Life Always Guides You

Many times we feel lost. Maybe it’s because we do not always feel that life is guiding us.

Open your eyes to what is around you. However, there are many circumstances in which we are blind. For example, we have all been in love with someone where we can only see the good in them.

Where was the negative? Because this person is not perfect and they have their faults. All this is being pushed to the back of your head.

There are many circumstances where the solution lies right in front of us, but we can not see them n because we have closed eyes. Today we will highlight some of these situations.

We blame others instead of taking responsibility

Disclaimer is one of the most damaging attitudes. However, we often internalize it in such a way that it makes it difficult to see any circumstances from a different perspective.

We believe that the blame for what happens to us falls on everyone else. This includes blaming others for how we feel. So ironic!

Think of someone arguing with someone else because of a difference of opinion. This person blames the other and may even tell them that they ruined their day. In the end, they spend the rest of the day being angry.

The problem does not lie in the problem, much less the other person. We all feel we have the right to share our opinions and get angry if the other does not agree.

Blaming the other person , however, is a mistake.

We think we would not behave in the same way if it happened to us. This situation of disagreement could have been resolved in a calmer way and without yelling.

We all have good and bad days.

Depending on which one it is, the same situation may end up somehow. Does it have anything to do with the other person? Absolutely. Our mood and our own circumstances are at stake.

Life always guides us and repeats the same patterns

It is a way that life always guides us time and time again, it repeats the same patterns, in different situations and with different people, so that we open our eyes.

Is it any wonder that someone has had four partners in a row who were unfaithful to them? Is it not interesting that the same situation has been repeated in a family generation after generation? This is not just a coincidence…

When the same pattern is repeated, we must stop ourselves and analyze what is happening so that it does not happen again.

It is not good for us to blame anyone, as we know, because the responsibility is ours. It is something, an attitude that provokes us and attracts us to the same situations over and over again.

Maybe we are afraid to be alone, and then we settle for the first person who will be with us? Maybe it is selfishness that has been passed on for generations?

Stopping and analyzing all of this helps us understand why we feel we are in an endless spiral that does not seem to have an end.

It can hurt to open your eyes

In many cases, opening your eyes is something that can happen late. It is when we look at our past that we realize that life always guides us, but we have ignored this too often.

This can hurt us and make us think that we have lost valuable time. As the saying goes, “better late than never.”

It is also important to warn you that opening your eyes at this important moment can be very painful.

Many people choose to live life with their eyes closed, feel sorry for themselves and the circumstances in which they find themselves, and always blame someone close to them for what is happening.

However, life always guides us. We must be prepared to detect and interpret its signs. But to do so, we must put aside guilt, victim mentality, and blindness.